where you lead, I will follow….

Gilmore Girls will always hold a huge, special place in my heart. I have watched the entirety of the show countless times and still can’t get enough of it. It’s like a warm hug whenever I put it on. It’s like I’m going to go hang out with my friends all in the comfort of my own home.

When I was in middle school, my neighbors had introduced me to Gilmore Girls and right away, I was hooked. I had to go out and buy the first 2 seasons immediately so I could be caught up (oh, the days before Netflix…). I watched all of those episodes, then would watch a rerun every day at 5pm on ABC Family, and then just chomp at the bit waiting for the next episode to air.

During that time, I had started living full time with my dad and my stepmom. I had a rocky upbringing due to being in the middle of a custody battle for 11 years (along with some other stuff from Mom, we’ll get into that another time), so my dad and I had a hard time getting onto the same page (trust issues). He would watch Gilmore Girls with me in the living room just about every time it aired in the beginning of the week and we would laugh together and talk about the show. We really bonded over it.

Growing up, I was a lot like Rory. Total bookworm, had a badass taste in music, and knew way too much about pop culture for people to understand me completely. She made me feel cool and confident in a time where I needed help with that the most. I was definitely proud to be like her and thought it was so cool seeing a young female shown that way on tv!

As I have gotten older, the more I admire Lorelai. She has so much strength and it’s inspiring how she put it to use. How we both built up our strength might be different, but it’s empowering to see a woman overcome obstacles on her own. She went out, made a new family of friends, worked hard and reached her goals. It may have been hard at times, but she got through it with style and her amazing wit.

I could go on for hours about the show. It has helped me in many situations of my life. Especially that, in the summer of 2008, I had a head injury that affected my memory; my speech and speed at which I responded were reduced. I would watchΒ Gilmore Girls and repeat their lines to practice talking fast and coming up with quick responses. I felt like I had lost a major function in my life and it was extremely difficult for me to handle and, unknowing that there are actual physical therapies for your mind and speech, I had to find a way to fix it. So I will forever have a bond with an already amazing show.

Oy with the poodles already!Β If you haven’t already watched it, I suggest you do!


2 thoughts on “where you lead, I will follow….

  1. Looking for the Light says:

    Custody fights, memory and cognitive issues make for a hell of a wake up call. I understand the custody fight well. In the past five years I’ve had to learn to live with cognitive issues.
    You stronger than you know.

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